It so happens at times that you wake up in the best of your moods... But due to someone else's action... Things tend to turn sour by the days end.
In such cases... The problem dosen't lie with anybody else. Rather it lies with your inner self. With time you have made yourself so vurnerable to other peoples' words and reactions that your inner self gets lost in the whole hustle-bustle. You are so engrossed in accessing your actions through another's perception and line of sight that you forget where you actually stand!
Still unable to relate to my topic? Alright lets make it a little simple with some common examples...
1.'O dear! How do i look in these clothes!? Hope i m not a fashion disaster!'--- This happens in case of my lady friends sometimes. With time they grow so conscious about their appearance to others that they forget to dress for themselves!
2.'Dammit! I hope my bloody boss gets impressed this time on atleast. Why dont i ever get to satisfy him inspite of all the effort that I put in?'--- This mostly happens to maximum youngsters these days.
3.'I wish i'd not spoken to him today! Bloody wild-ass spoilt my day!' --- happens to all of us irrespective of age!
The day a person starts living life on one's own terms without bothering a fig about the people around oneself is the day a person will attain total inner peace. This calmness or sense of freedom (freedom to me because i long for such a day to come in my life) is the day this person will be the happiest human on earth.
Live for yourself. Do things so that your inner soul is happy. Do not try to please others by your actions; by keeping yourself dissatisfied. This is pretence and is the worst crime a human can ever commit. If watering a plant makes you happy, go forth and do it! If hating cats is your nature, accept it publicly and let your girlfriend know about it! Why pretend now and suffer all life long? Haha...
If donating money for charity is not your forte and donating blood is, then why shy away? If you love your landlady's son, let him know about it and stay peaceful within! :P why bother about rejection in the first place? I love writing stuff, basically writing rubbish about whatever topic comes up in my head. I never hesitate. I make it a point to jot the maximum down in my stupid little blog. And i love reading them whenever i feel like. Wish i knew about blogging earlier in my life. Atleast i wouldnt have burnt and torn a dozen diaries scared of i dont know what or who! :P
Okay, the basic point that i tried to make is that before blaming someone for the reactions that you are giving, please try to access yourself first. Try to see things differently,from within and you will find an answer to your condition. Life is easy. We silly humans with a god gifted cranium waste it on complicated lines. Live simple and stay happy. :)
God bless.
In such cases... The problem dosen't lie with anybody else. Rather it lies with your inner self. With time you have made yourself so vurnerable to other peoples' words and reactions that your inner self gets lost in the whole hustle-bustle. You are so engrossed in accessing your actions through another's perception and line of sight that you forget where you actually stand!
Still unable to relate to my topic? Alright lets make it a little simple with some common examples...
1.'O dear! How do i look in these clothes!? Hope i m not a fashion disaster!'--- This happens in case of my lady friends sometimes. With time they grow so conscious about their appearance to others that they forget to dress for themselves!
2.'Dammit! I hope my bloody boss gets impressed this time on atleast. Why dont i ever get to satisfy him inspite of all the effort that I put in?'--- This mostly happens to maximum youngsters these days.
3.'I wish i'd not spoken to him today! Bloody wild-ass spoilt my day!' --- happens to all of us irrespective of age!
The day a person starts living life on one's own terms without bothering a fig about the people around oneself is the day a person will attain total inner peace. This calmness or sense of freedom (freedom to me because i long for such a day to come in my life) is the day this person will be the happiest human on earth.
Live for yourself. Do things so that your inner soul is happy. Do not try to please others by your actions; by keeping yourself dissatisfied. This is pretence and is the worst crime a human can ever commit. If watering a plant makes you happy, go forth and do it! If hating cats is your nature, accept it publicly and let your girlfriend know about it! Why pretend now and suffer all life long? Haha...
If donating money for charity is not your forte and donating blood is, then why shy away? If you love your landlady's son, let him know about it and stay peaceful within! :P why bother about rejection in the first place? I love writing stuff, basically writing rubbish about whatever topic comes up in my head. I never hesitate. I make it a point to jot the maximum down in my stupid little blog. And i love reading them whenever i feel like. Wish i knew about blogging earlier in my life. Atleast i wouldnt have burnt and torn a dozen diaries scared of i dont know what or who! :P
Okay, the basic point that i tried to make is that before blaming someone for the reactions that you are giving, please try to access yourself first. Try to see things differently,from within and you will find an answer to your condition. Life is easy. We silly humans with a god gifted cranium waste it on complicated lines. Live simple and stay happy. :)
God bless.
